Advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

no u r def not overreacting. You gave him the ultimatum and you should stick to it....if you allow him to control you now and y'all stay together for along time its going to be 10 times worse. I ve been with my man for 5 yrs. and didn't stick to my ultimatum 3 yrs ago over a VERY similar situation and have no friends...no life outside of him...I don't even live in the same town anymore so when i say NO FRIENDS i mean no friends. Not saying it'll be like that for you, but there is always that possibility. Don;t let any man make your decisions for you.